The Empleasured Woman – Landhaus Gottsdorf

Thu 30 May 2024 10:00 AM - Sun 2 Jun 2024 6:00 PM CEST
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“𝐈𝐅 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐖𝐀𝐍𝐓 𝐓𝐎 𝐆𝐈𝐕𝐄 𝐏𝐋𝐄𝐀𝐒𝐔𝐑𝐄, 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐌𝐔𝐒𝐓 𝐊𝐍𝐎𝐖 𝐏𝐋𝐄𝐀𝐒𝐔𝐑𝐄!”
- 𝘔𝘰𝘷𝘪𝘦: 𝘋𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘦𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘴 𝘉𝘦𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘺
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This powerful quote does not only speak about the ability to give Pleasure to others, but first and foremost to YOURSELF.
Giving Pleasure, hence also means RECEIVING Pleasure.
If your own cup ain`t full, you can´t give without draining yourself!
How would a woman, who stands in her pleasure, walk through this world?
How would you walk and talk and speak?
I want to see so many more, in fact ALL women in their full power, standing in their self confidence and radiance. I want all women to be standing in front of a mirror and be unashamedly proud of and in love with themselves!

It is in all of us! It is in you!
And I know that you want it!

Some time in your life, your light got dimmed. You had to put it down to protect yourself. Shining and radiating wasn't welcome, your curiosity and emotions were too much, your full expression overwhelming for the people around you.
They were not ready to meet so much aliveness and truth…so you shut down to fit in.
Adjusted yourself to be loved.
Then you grew up into a teenager, into an adult, maybe even already into an elderly.
Who are you? Are you living your empowered-woman or is your inner little girl ruling your life?
Where did your full spectrum go? Where did your aliveness and pleasure go?
So many of us are still afraid to live and show it. Afraid we´ll be perceived as “too happy”, braggy, cocky, showing off, arrogant or even cold. Afraid we´ll end up lonely.

The strains of our fast paced, high demanding world don't make it any easier to come back into our EMPLEASURED SELF.
You are strong, dedicated, courageous and learned to do it all alone.
Which is a great superpower, yet also made you forget your ancient ability of being a woman.
You forgot your beauty, your power and your joy.
You forgot how to truly feel pleasure and be orgasmic.
Deep down, there is this yearning to come back to that part of yourself!

You try so hard to fulfill all the demands of life, that you forgot on your worldly level, that you are beautiful and perfect as you are!
Pretending to be ok, while deep down something is missing, is not only exhausting, but actually living in denial of your own truth and can lead to lethargy, depression or even illness.

You are longing to be relieved from the tension to hold things together.
Your life, your family, your work, yourself. And even though you are trying to make everything perfect, you never quite feel that you are there.
You never feel quite right. Often not enough or too much.
You yearn to let go of control and soften.

Soften so much that pleasure, orgasm, eros and life force can run through your whole system again.
If you allow yourself to listen to that inner voice, then you know….
Tapping into your full pleasure potential is your greatest wish.
Wanting to feel radiant and alive is your soul's longing.
Yet tapping into your full pleasure potential is also your greatest fear.
You are ready to bring yourself home into your own body and being, and live your WHOLENESS.
And you don't have to do it alone.

The times of trying to rescue yourself are over and you deserve to finally learn how to let go and surrender. How to lean into support and trust.
To be held, be alive, inspired, radiant and ecstatic.

Oh Babe, THIS IS YOU!
YOUR ESSENCE IN ALL IT´S GLORY AND RADIANCE!
Let's get you out of that state of freeze and shame, to get you back to utterly embodied self worth and confidence.
Finally feel again your LUST FOR LIFE.
Naturally standing up for yourself and your desires.
Coming back to orgasmic living, where you can experience pleasure on all levels!
And guess what? Once this energy and potential of yours is reignited it will give others around you permission for their pleasure and attract even more pleasure into your life.
It's an UPWARD SPIRAL once you dare to enter the stream.


“𝑰𝑻 𝑰𝑺 𝑵𝑶𝑻 𝑬𝑵𝑶𝑼𝑮𝑯 𝑻𝑶 𝑪𝑶𝑵𝑸𝑼𝑬𝑹, 𝑶𝑵𝑬 𝑴𝑼𝑺𝑻 𝑲𝑵𝑶𝑾 𝑯𝑶𝑾 𝑻𝑶 𝑺𝑬𝑫𝑼𝑪𝑬” - 𝑉𝑜𝑙𝑡𝑎𝑖𝑟𝑒
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THE EMPLEASURED WOMAN
She IS the woman that she admires so much.
She IS the woman that she wants to be.
She enters the room and she is THERE.
She naturally makes an impression and radiates from within.
Her heart, yoni and body leading her way.
Her values are connected to truth, integrity, love and pleasure.
She stands in her femininity.
She dances with all spectrums of life.
Soft and fierce.
Gentle and wild.
Orgasm is not just a sexual peak experience for her, but a holistic path.
A path of being alive.
A way of living.
A path of saying YES to life.

She knows that she wont have better orgasms, just through better techniques, better toys or better lovers.
She knows it´s a force residing within herself.
A dormant force that is ready to be re-awakened.
It is a descent into your own inner world.
A descent to then rise up into your highest potential.
Come down, to come up!

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When you look at your life at the moment it feels ok.
Good enough.
But good enough, was never good enough for you. You want more!
No more overstepping your boundaries and not knowing what you want.
No more fear of intensity or the inability to let go and hence not being able to have orgasms.
No more not experiencing real joy and pleasure, cause your self trust and confidence are asleep.
You want to finally…
…allow yourself all the pleasure that is available for you
…remove any cap you have on how much pleasure you can experience
…open up to your full pleasure capacity and be able to hold it
…be able to hold the intensity of all that life has to offer…from anger to orgasm…all of it!
…be so relaxed that eros, life force and pleasure can run freely through your body
…feel self confident no matter how you look or what you wear
…be able to experience deep pleasure with yourself
…be able to experience deep pleasure with a lover
…feel supported and held

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𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗜𝗦 𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗦 𝗜𝗠𝗠𝗘𝗥𝗦𝗜𝗢𝗡 𝗔𝗕𝗢𝗨𝗧?

𝐊𝐍𝐎𝐖 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒𝐄𝐋𝐅.
Knowing your own pleasure landscape, from the light to the shadow, is one step to more empowerment. A holistic approach including the science of pleasure, ritual, embodiment and tantric practices will get you out of your mind. Befriend your intimate and energy body, your sexual anatomy and pleasure archetype to regain self confidence and power.
𝐅𝐄𝐄𝐋 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒𝐄𝐋𝐅.
To feel more orgasmic in your life and to also experience deeper orgasms in your intimacy, the connection to your felt sense and to FEELING are crucial. There is no good or bad, no right or wrong - everything that we feel can be transmuted into pleasure. Look forward to expanding your pleasure capacity by deeply connecting to your body, yoni and emotions.
𝐄𝐗𝐏𝐑𝐄𝐒𝐒 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒𝐄𝐋𝐅.
From a place of inner trust, self knowledge, self experience and a deep relaxation into your sensual body, your pleasure and life force can flow. Life force brings inspiration, creativity, motivation, radiance and lust for life. Through releasing shame around your pleasure and sexuality you will eventually be able to embody your Empleasured Woman
𝐄𝐌𝐏𝐋𝐄𝐀𝐒𝐔𝐑𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒𝐄𝐋𝐅.
All these days are designed to enable you to reclaim your self confidence and your right to shine and be radiant, by being connected to the power of your femininity and yoni, whilst experiencing the support of other women and a tribe. By expanding your YES for life and your orgasmic potential, new pleasure portals and possibilities will open up for you.

𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗣𝗥𝗔𝗖𝗧𝗜𝗖𝗘𝗦 𝗪𝗜𝗟𝗟 𝗪𝗘 𝗕𝗘 𝗗𝗢𝗜𝗡𝗚?
“Hands on” will be running our days - whether that be with our own bodies, through art (painting, clay, etc) or through nature and earth.→ guided EMPLEASUREMENT practices to KNOW YOURSELF. FEEL YOURSELF. EXPRESS YOURSELF:* Nervous system Nourishment
* Un-numbing the Body / Felt Sense
* From anticipation to action
* Self Consent & Worship
* Pleasure Archetypes
* Exploring the 4 Pleasure Realms
* Pleasure Awareness: Turn On / Turn Off
* Physical Pleasure Mapping
* Yoni Puja
* Yoni Egg Practices
* Energy Body & Orgasm
* Emotional Alchemy
* Embodied Pleasure Dance
* Pleasure as Prayer
* The Pleasure of Nature & Earth

The practices offered are from my extensive tool box and the various trainings I’ve done, mostly coming from Tantra & Neo Tantra, Consciousness Coaching, Shadow Work, Sexological Bodywork, Yoga, Erotic Dance and various mindfulness teachings.
Please be aware that we might be doing additional practices and also that it might be that we will not do all of The above listed practices, as I always go with the flow and the energy of the group!

𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝗖𝗢𝗡𝗧𝗥𝗜𝗕𝗨𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡:
𝑭𝑶𝑼𝑹 𝑫𝑨𝒀 𝑹𝑬𝑻𝑹𝑬𝑨𝑻:
EARLY BIRD - 450€ - register and pay until 30. March
REGULAR - 480€ - register and pay until 28. MayIf you struggle with money, but feel a heart calling to join, please send me an EMAIL to hello@sanyaalaya.com and share a bit about yourself, your situation and why you want to join.
I wish for as many women to be able to join and money shouldn't be in the way!

𝑭𝑶𝑶𝑫:
Full board with yummie, biological vegetarian food - paid in cash at the venue - 160€

𝑨𝑪𝑪𝑶𝑴𝑴𝑶𝑫𝑨𝑻𝑰𝑶𝑵:
Accommodation is in double rooms or shared rooms. Limited number of single rooms available.
This will be booked directly with the venue by yourself - about two weeks before the event will take place. You will be notified when the booking is open!
For all 4 days in total: 126€ - 180€ depending on your choice.

𝗕𝘆 𝗿𝗲𝗴𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗽𝗮𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗮𝗰𝗰𝗲𝗽𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝗳𝘂𝗻𝗱 & 𝗰𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲𝗹𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻.

𝗥𝗘𝗙𝗨𝗡𝗗 & 𝗖𝗔𝗡𝗖𝗘𝗟𝗟𝗔𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡 𝗣𝗢𝗟𝗜𝗖𝗬:
Up to 1 month before event: 50% of the event fee has to be paid
Up to 2 weeks before event: 75% of the event fee has to be paid
Less than 2 weeks before event: 100% of the event fee has to be paidIf there are people on the waiting list and someone takes over your spot after canceling, we take an administration fee of 150€ and the rest will be refunded. Registration closes two days before we start the immersion - after that no more change to your booking or cancellation is possible.

𝐅𝐑𝐄𝐐𝐔𝐄𝐍𝐓𝐋𝐘 𝐀𝐒𝐊𝐄𝐃 𝐐𝐔𝐄𝐒𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍𝐒:

  • 𝗔𝗠 𝗜 𝗔 𝗙𝗜𝗧 𝗙𝗢𝗥 𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗦 𝗥𝗘𝗧𝗥𝗘𝗔𝗧? (𝗔𝗚𝗘, 𝗕𝗘𝗚𝗜𝗡𝗡𝗘𝗥𝗦, 𝗔𝗗𝗩𝗔𝗡𝗖𝗘𝗗, 𝗘𝗧𝗖?)
    At this retreat ALL AGES are welcome!
    I am especially also inviting women over 40, 50 and 60 to join and envisioning a mixed group with different generations and different gifts that we all bring with us!
    This retreat is for anyone who wants to explore and dive deep into their Pleasure Potential and it is not crucial if you are a beginner or advanced. If you have a calling this os for you!
    And if you are unsure and have specific questions: Please ask me 
  • 𝗛𝗢𝗪 𝗗𝗢 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗗𝗘𝗙𝗜𝗡𝗘 “𝗪𝗢𝗠𝗔𝗡”?
    Woman for this retreat for me means a person who has a yoni and identifies partially as a woman. If you are non-binary or queer and want to explore your “woman” you are also very welcome!
    Please be aware that I will use gendered language, although I’m not into stereotypical masculine / feminine energy teachings, but me referring to us as “women”, “babes”, “queens” or anything like that has to be ok for you.
  • 𝗜’𝗠 𝗛𝗬𝗣𝗘𝗥𝗦𝗘𝗡𝗦𝗜𝗧𝗜𝗩𝗘. 𝗜𝗦 𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗦 𝗙𝗢𝗥 𝗠𝗘?
    I myself am a hypersensitive person and know how it can be when we spend several days in a group and with others. While I cannot guarantee you how your experience will be, I can let you know that you will have breaks to rest and recharge and that you always have the option to not join a practice and take time for yourself.
  • 𝗜 𝗛𝗔𝗩𝗘 𝗧𝗥𝗔𝗨𝗠𝗔 𝗔𝗥𝗢𝗨𝗡𝗗 𝗠𝗬 𝗕𝗢𝗗𝗬 𝗢𝗥 𝗦𝗘𝗫𝗨𝗔𝗟𝗜𝗧𝗬 - 𝗖𝗔𝗡 𝗜 𝗝𝗢𝗜𝗡?
    This retreat is led in a trauma informed way and it is NOT A NO for you to join, if you have experienced trauma in your past and are aware of it.
    That being said: This retreat is not therapy and does not replace it! If you have experienced recent trauma or the trauma that you experienced is very active at the moment, please check in with your therapist if it is a good idea to join.
    At the retreat we will have a person for emotional support, yet there is no space for individual therapy and it is important that you yourself know how to navigate your reactions and how to resource.
    If in doubt…please contact me!
  • 𝗪𝗜𝗟𝗟 𝗜 𝗛𝗔𝗩𝗘 𝗧𝗢 𝗕𝗘 𝗡𝗔𝗞𝗘𝗗?
    In my events I always take great care to first create an atmosphere where everyone feels comfortable and as safe as possible, before moving into more intimate practices. While we will engage in tantric practices and practices related to body positivity, there will never be the moment where you have to do anything! At the same time I also like to encourage people to expand their comfort zone, but not more than 20%, as otherwise the danger of freezing or a trauma reaction is too big.
  • 𝗜´𝗠 𝗣𝗥𝗘𝗚𝗡𝗔𝗡𝗧/𝗢𝗡 𝗠𝗬 𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗦𝗧𝗥𝗨𝗔𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡, 𝗖𝗔𝗡 𝗜 𝗖𝗢𝗠𝗘?
    If you are pregnant or on your menstruation you can absolutely join! Please assess your own energy levels and needs, to decide for yourself if this retreat is suitable for you.
  • 𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧’𝗦 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗧𝗜𝗠𝗘𝗧𝗔𝗕𝗟𝗘?
    We will start with a gentle 45 min morning practice to awaken our bodies, have breakfast, a morning session, then lunch around 1pm and continue around 3.30/4pm until dinner around 7pm. We will also have evening rituals. Times might vary, so please see this just as a loose schedule to get an idea.
  • 𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗦𝗛𝗢𝗨𝗟𝗗 𝗜 𝗕𝗥𝗜𝗡𝗚?
    You will get a detailed list when it is closer to the retreat, but what I can share with you already is:
    - sarong /lunghi /scarf to cover yourself and the mattresses
    - object for the altar
    - notebook and pen
    - yoni egg
    - Bedsheets and covers
    - warm socks or shoes for inside the house
    - comfortable clothes in layers
    - a sexy outfit to move in
  • 𝗪𝗛𝗜𝗖𝗛 𝗬𝗢𝗡𝗜 𝗘𝗚𝗚 𝗗𝗢 𝗜 𝗡𝗘𝗘𝗗?
    If you don't have a yoni egg yet, you might want to purchase one and are maybe wondering which one is best for you?
    I recommend the stone jade or obsidian as these are the hardest stones and are very difficult to break. This means that fewer bacteria can accumulate in the cracks and are therefore the most hygienic.
    If you're new to this practice, it's helpful if your egg has a hole on one side so a string can be attached, making it easier to retrieve or move it up and down.
    But don't worry...even if your egg doesn't have a string, it will come out again and can't get “lost! If you don't own a Yoni egg yourself, I can highly recommend this one: https://www.sanyaalaya.com/yonishop
  • 𝗪𝗛𝗘𝗥𝗘 𝗪𝗜𝗟𝗟 𝗪𝗘 𝗕𝗘? In a beautiful venue outside of Berlin, located in a small village and surrounded by nature, forest and lake in walking distance. https://www.landhaus-gottsdorf.de
  • 𝗜𝗠𝗣𝗢𝗥𝗧𝗔𝗡𝗧 𝗧𝗜𝗠𝗘𝗦: Thursday 30. May - Arrival: 10.00 - 12.00 I Opening Circle: 13.00 Sunday 02. June - Closing Circle 17.00
  • 𝗔𝗟𝗟 𝗢𝗧𝗛𝗘𝗥 𝗜𝗠𝗣𝗢𝗥𝗧𝗔𝗡𝗧 𝗗𝗘𝗧𝗔𝗜𝗟𝗦 𝗪𝗜𝗟𝗟 𝗕𝗘 𝗦𝗛𝗔𝗥𝗘𝗗 𝗜𝗡 𝗧𝗜𝗠𝗘 𝗩𝗜𝗔 𝗘𝗠𝗔𝗜𝗟 𝗪𝗜𝗧𝗛 𝗬𝗢𝗨! <𝟯

𝗔𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗦𝗮𝗻𝘆𝗮 - Sanya Alaya is a trauma informed somatic coach for holistic wellbeing and sexuality, based in Berlin.
She transformed her experience of childhood trauma, autoimmune disease, chronic pain and insecurities into fuel to create more love, consciousness and pleasure in her life and the world around her.
Her own healing pathways were Tantra, Tao, Shadow Work, Conscious Kink, Chi Nei Tsang, Dearmouring, Breathwork and Meditation and are nowadays woven into all her workshops, retreats, trainings, coachings and 1:1 bodywork sessions.Her heart mission is to support people to get beyond their childhood traumas and embody their sensuality and self expression, love themselves, unravel conditioning and be fully and unapologetically who they truly are.
She stands for: Embodiment. Empowerment. EMPLEASUREMENT™. She is trained and certified as a Sex, Love and Relationship coach by Layla Martin (VITA Medthod),  by the Sexological Bodywork Institute, Erotic School of Mysteries, and the Creative Consciousness Coaching Academy.