Written and performed by Debbie Bird

Directed by Mark Farrelly (Quentin Crisp: Naked Hope)

When did you last feel alive?

Fifty, frumpy and full of inhibitions, newly-divorced Julie is searching for the sex life she once had, declaring: "I’m not ready to be put out to pasture yet!". Hurling herself into the modern dating scene, Julie shares her experiences with raw humour and engaging honesty, introducing us to the range of characters who help (or hinder) her attempted transition into empowered woman living her life and having that elusive fun.

But what does it take for Julie to truly become herself, and does she have the inner courage? What is required of any man or woman to live their truest life in a world that wants us to settle for 'fitting in'? Expect tears, truth and revelations aplenty in this warm and witty solo play.

Contains sexual references, recommendation 14+

Both performances will host a post-show talk to allow audience members to share their experiences of menopause, middle age, and all that goes with it. 

“Carries a message that needs to be heard by everyone, especially those for whom older women are cougars, or irrelevant, or your mum.” British Theatre Guide

“An encouraging and enlightening show” londontheatre1.com

“We cry with her, we laugh with her and, most importantly, we feel with her” The Spy in the Stalls

“Nothing is off limits in this frank, open, honest and heartfelt story" Theatre and Arts Review

"Bird is a brilliant performer...a joy to watch" The Scotsman

Approx running time 1 hour 10 (not including post-show talk)

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