The Grand Union - Desire · Energy · Connection
THE GRAND UNION
Desire · Energy · Connection
A taster evening of Tantric sexuality for men & women
What if sexuality could be about so much more than sex?
What if being “turned on” wasn’t only something that happened when another person touched you — but a state of aliveness, energy, presence and connection that you could discover within yourself?
And what if intimacy wasn’t about performing, pleasing or trying to get somewhere — but about learning to feel more, stay present and meet another person without losing yourself?
Welcome to The Grand Union.
This three-hour introductory evening is an invitation to experience a different understanding of Tantra and sexuality — one that has far less to do with what you may imagine when you hear the word Tantra, and far more to do with your relationship with yourself, your body, your energy and the way you connect with others.
What actually is Tantric sex?
Most of us received very little meaningful education about sexuality.
We learned, consciously or unconsciously, that sex has a particular trajectory:
desire → stimulation → more stimulation → climax → release.
We chase the peak.
Tantra invites us to explore another possibility.
What happens when there is nowhere to get to?
When we slow down enough to really feel?
When pleasure is allowed to build, move and expand rather than immediately needing to reach a conclusion?
When sexuality becomes less about doing and more about being?
This is where our exploration begins.
LEARN · EXPERIENCE · FEEL
This isn't an evening of simply sitting and listening to someone talk about Tantra.
Through accessible education, breath, movement, awareness and carefully guided embodied practices, you'll have the opportunity to experience some of these principles for yourself.
We'll begin exploring:
- sexual energy as life-force energy
- pleasure beyond performance and goal-orientated sex
- how breath and awareness can change our experience of sensation
- the masculine and feminine qualities within ourselves
- what it means to create greater inner union
- how we can meet another person while remaining deeply connected to ourselves
At the heart of the evening is a simple exploration:
Can I feel myself, stay with myself — and from there, truly meet you?
NEW TO TANTRA? YOU ARE VERY WELCOME.
You don't need any previous experience.
You don't need to be sexually confident, particularly spiritual or in a relationship.
You can come single or partnered.
And you will not be expected to be sexual with anyone.
This is a clothed, carefully facilitated evening where consent, boundaries and personal choice are central. Everything is an invitation, and you are always free to participate at the level that feels right for you.
Come curious.
Come nervous.
Come knowing absolutely nothing about Tantra.
Come and learn, experience and feel for yourself.
Perhaps being fully sexual isn't about having more sex.
Perhaps it's about becoming more fully alive within yourself.
And from there, discovering what becomes possible when you meet another.
YOUR FACILITATORS
Anja Woszczyna is a Tantra teacher, trauma-informed intimacy coach, senior yoga teacher, bodyworker and NLP coach. Her work brings together Tantra, embodiment, intimacy, nervous-system awareness and transformational practices.
Jai (pronounced ‘Jay’) Joshi is a self-confessed Inner Yogi, Outer Tantrika whose passion is supporting others to awaken to their True Nature. An intuitive channel, holistic bodyworker, energy and sound healer, Sacred Man facilitator, martial artist, musician and occasional silly goose, Jai brings body, mind and soul together through embodied masculine presence, safety, integrity and authenticity.
Together, Anja and Jai will bring both masculine and feminine perspectives into a grounded, carefully held space for education, exploration and embodied experience.
Saturday 14 November 2026
6:00–9:00pm
Natural Healing Dorset, Bournemouth
THE GRAND UNION
Desire · Energy · Connection
Come as you are. Come curious. Discover what becomes possible when sexuality stops being something you simply do — and becomes something you learn to inhabit.
Location
The Natural Healing Dorset, BH7 6BQ