Attachment Alchemy by Dance Meets Tantra | 2-Day Immersion in Boulder, CO!

After a sold-out Attachment Alchemy immersion in Berkeley, we’re thrilled to bring this special edition of Dance Meets Tantra back home—to Boulder, CO.

This version of DMT is centered around attachment repair, a theme that touches every part of our lives: relationships, sex, purpose, money, and dance. Our attachment wiring shapes how we show up - in intimacy, on the dance floor, and in the world.

This Friday night + Saturday immersion transforms the dance floor into a living laboratory - a space to explore the somatic roots of connection, practice nervous system regulation, and experience communal healing.

While attachment theory has become a buzzword, true, embodied opportunities to heal in community remain rare. Most attachment work is intellectual. Attachment Alchemy is something different: it’s relational, somatic, and deeply communal. This is where healing happens, in relationship, in motion, in the body.

This weekend immersion also serves as a potent introduction to Attachment Alchemy: A 4-Month Journey to Embodied Secure Attachment, led by Chloe Good & Spencer Jacobson.

This longer journey is designed to rewire your attachment patterns through repetition, group practice, 1:1 mentorship, and ongoing community of practice. Think of it as re-parenting your nervous system—with others, in real time.

We’re honored to welcome Chloe Good, a masterful guide in Attachment Repair Coaching, with over a decade of experience in modalities like Hakomi, Ideal Parent Figure (IPF), and the Adult Attachment Repair Model. Chloe was also Spencer’s personal coach during the birth of Dance Meets Tantra—and her impact is woven into the DNA of this work.

Together, we’ll co-create a container rooted in clear agreements, consent, attunement, and self-responsibility.

We’ll dance, connect, breathe, unravel, and rewire.

We’ll practice being seen and held—just as we are.

We’ll explore the raw, messy, sacred truths of our bodies, hearts and souls.

This is a space to remember that healing happens in relationship.

You don’t have to do it alone.

During this workshop, you will:

🌀 Discover patterns: Gain clarity on your attachment style and how it shapes your relationships.

🌀 Build security: Strengthen your ability to feel steady, connected, and resilient in relationships.

🌀 Transform old ways: Release outdated attachment dynamics and rewire for trust and connection.

🌀 Heal through dance: Use movement to explore and shift attachment patterns, accessing openness and belonging.

🌀 Experience joyful healing: Transformation doesn’t have to be heavy—discover the lightness and fun in growth.

🌀 Foster connection: Immerse yourself in a supportive, loving community for a profound sense of belonging.

Why This Matters:

Attachment styles shape how we connect, love, and relate. Attachment Alchemy bridges the gap between theory and practice, offering a communal, embodied pathway to repair and connection.

You’ll leave this experience feeling alive, connected, and ready to bring new ways of being, loving, and creating into your life.

About Dance Meets Tantra

Originating in Boulder, CO, Dance Meets Tantra has been traveling nationwide (and soon internationally) offering sold-out monthly immersions that explore the intersection of conscious dance with relational intimacy, somatic attunement, ritual & ceremony, and kink & shadow work. We take pride in creating a trauma-informed space while also welcoming people to explore the edges of their comfort zone. It is a transformational journey and an emerging body of work dedicated to empowering communities to relate with more attunement, authenticity and aliveness while creating safer spaces where individuals can embrace their wholeness—both the light and the dark—while cultivating a collective field that is far greater than the sum of its parts.

Dance Meets Tantra is also a movement. Across the country, we’ve seen an outpouring of passion and yearning for conscious dance to evolve—embracing a fuller spectrum of human expression, and creating safer ways to welcome deep vulnerability and eros.

Perhaps you’ve been feeling this call– for dance to become more attuned and embrace a wider spectrum of expression, and for tantra to be more embodied, playful, and vibrant. You instinctively know that something extraordinary happens when embodied movers gather with full permission to be alive, to connect, and to share their magic.

This is Dance Meets Tantra.

A Note on Tantra

For us, tantra is the practice and art of being fully alive. There is nothing sexual in nature in the activities we share. Sometimes sexual energy arises, and is only permitted within the context of consent and the agreements and container that is set.

Our intention with Dance Meets Tantra is to support individuals in deepening their love, respect, and relationship with themselves, others, and the earth. We believe that dance, eros, and tantra are fundamental aspects of living a vibrant, empowered, and creative life. Through various explorations, we aim to liberate creativity and life force, inviting you to step into your fullest expression.

For more details on sexual energy and our approach, please visit our [FAQ] (https://www.dancemeetstantra.com/faq).

Dance Meets Tantra is a space of:

🌀 Vulnerability: to be fully alive we need to get real. We create safer spaces to compassionately own and get present to the full range of our emotions, fears, blocks and discomfort.

🌀 Permission: to be the full expression of ourselves - including our sensual and erotic nature - however that looks.

🌀Safety: boundaries, consent, attunement, and self-responsibility are essential to navigating safe space together.

How do I know if this is for me?

🌀You read this far and are feeling excitement

🌀You are working on your secure attachment and want to deepen and repair through dance, connection and embodied relational exercises

🌀You are a dancer and love any opportunity go deeper into your dance

🌀You are exploring tantra and looking for a potent and embodied space to practice

*If you're feeling the call, we invite you to join us. If you have more questions, please read our FAQ: www.dancemeetstantra.com/faq. You can also reach us directly at play@dancemeetstantra.com.

*Space is extremely limited and this will sell out.

Diverse Backgrounds Partial Scholarship

At Dance Meets Tantra we understand that various forms of privilege can play a role in financial access to our containers. We believe that diversity is an important aspect of building a truly transformational journey and we desire to impact and support all people with our work. We are providing some partial scholarships for people from diverse backgrounds who may not otherwise be able to afford the full ticket price.

Partial scholarships are generally about 25-50% the cost of a regular priced ticket.

Apply here: https://forms.gle/jJe1cCb4fshLDgQb8

Logistics and FAQ

Meals: We will break for lunch and finish in time for dinner. Please bring your own lunch!

(In service of maintaining our time integrity and intimacy of the container we ask participants not to go out for lunch)

Time: To maintain the safety, connection and intimacy of our container we ask that participants plan to attend for the entire duration of the immersion

• Arrival on Friday July 11: Doors Open 6:00pm-6:45pm. Doors close and container starts at 6:45pm. No one will be admitted after 6:45pm. There will be no exceptions.

• Workshop time: 
  • Friday: 6:45pm-10:00pm
  • Saturday: 11:00am-7:00pm

Space: is limited to the first 45 sign-ups

Address: Nevei Kodesh | 1925 Glenwood Dr, Boulder, CO 80304

Refund & Transfer Policy:

- There are no refunds. Tickets are transferrable to another participant in advance of the event and we ask that you be responsible for finding the buyer.

Special Offer:
Join the 4-Month Attachment Alchemy Journey and get the 1.5-day immersion FREE. Already signed up for the immersion? You can apply your ticket cost towards the full program.

Your Dance Meets Tantra Guides:

Spencer Jacobson, Co-founder of Dance Meets Tantra

Spencer is a transformational facilitator, DJ, poet and serial entrepreneur with a passion for the art of gathering humans to experience the deepest truths of ourselves individually and collectively. His facilitation style invites self-expression, connection, and creativity while playfully and safely exploring the edges of our comfort zone. He is forever a student of embodiment and healing arts - having studied 5Rhythms dance, tantra, contact improv, ontological coaching, cranialsacral therapy, and yoga. Through his training and deep personal experiences, he is committed to creating safer spaces that hold a trauma-informed perspective. He is co-founder of www.dancemeetstantra.com and www.emergence.love - and previously founded www.guided.co - an organization that has coached thousands of business leaders around the world. "Your heart knows the way, run in that direction” - Rumi | www.spencerjacobson.com | @spencerjacobson_

Chloe Good, Guest Facilitator

Chloe has guided hundreds of visionary women and men to move towards secure attachment and align their lives to their higher purpose for the past 12 years. Chloe taught Leadership for Stanford & Sonoma State University and consults Leaders at companies like eBay, Accenture, Square, Facebook and various San Francisco Bay Area startups aligning leaders to their higher purpose to create the world we all want to live in.

Chloe integrates over 20,000 hours of training and experience and 50 trainings, including the Adult Attachment Repair Model (aka stick work), Secure Attachment to Nature, Hakomi Somatic Therapy, mindfulness meditation, Life Purpose Work, Internal Family Systems, Energy Work, Strengths Based Leadership and Integrative Quantum Medicine. She earned her BA from Columbia University in the City of New York. Chloe is a community builder, having co-created over 40 Co-Housing Living Communities in San Francisco and NYC. Chloe also loves to travel and has visited over 30 countries on 5 continents. Chloe is also the founder of Own Your Magic, which combines Chloe's ability to guide women and men to deep transformation, secure attachment and fulfill their higher purpose supported by an amazing network and community.

Testimonials:

"DMT is a beautifully, well-oiled offering. The container is created with an immense amount of care, intention, and trauma-informed awareness. Atilla, Spencer, Gemma, and all of the assistants cultivated a space of permission, of grace, of courage, of trust, of exploration, of depth, of joy, of love, and of acceptance. Whether you are brand new to the worlds of tantra and dance, or a devotee of these ways of life, DMT has something to offer everyone. Thank you for an incredible experience that re-sparked inspiration in my entire being!" ~ Brooke Alexander

"Having taught Tantra for 30 years, I know when a container is pristinely created and held and was impressed with how Spencer and Atilla build and held it. Before contact in the dances, they led us through 3 "Puja" stations that integrated the wisdom shared earlier of connecting first in our energy bodies with breath and, only with presence, going to touch. These experiences prepared this experienced dance community to move into contact from outside the auric field first, so settling to the nervous system of us empaths. I felt the contact more deeply for this Tantric approach to it that I left supremely satisfied." ~Evalena Rose

"DMT empowered me to be in greater contact with my "yes's" and "no's." This container gave me permission to participate in the exact ways that I was ready for, and not push myself beyond my comfort zone in a way that was unsustainable. By the end, I had such a fun time liberating my weird/ wild/ kinky/ primal self on the dance floor and relate with others in a way that is rare to find in common dance spaces. I am forever grateful for this space and what Danny, Atilla, and Spencer are creating. Also, their facilitation is ON POINT. Raw, real, potent, and just as human as the rest of us. Give yourself the gift of DMT. :)" - Erica Shapiro

"The instructional embodied ease of the facilitation was amazing! Their ability to create a safe container to go deeper or be wildly playful as a participant was amazing and appreciated! Their ability to speak directly and precisely with clear energy and boundaries, combined with inner wisdom and strength, supported me in being more open and trusting!" ~Candy James

"It's rare that I go to something that is truly life-changing & empowering, and our Dance Meets Tantra day together was exactly that. It was one of the greatest days of personal growth, fun, and sensual exploration I've ever had." ~ Jason Lamb

"It’s truly hard to put into words the profundity of what took place at the dance meets tantra retreat. There was an undeniable intelligence moving through each day that organized the field in the exact ways it needed. Moving through layers of shadow and alchemizing them into wholeness. Each person brought a piece to the puzzle that was incredibly important and the collective healing that unfolded was beyond anything I have ever been a part of. This container allowed it all to be there - tenderness, pleasure, joy, grief, beauty, pain, ecstasy, heartbreak, heart opening. I felt deeply safe in the space (and it takes a lot for me to feel safe) and a huge reason for that is the high quality presence and care each of the facilitators brought. It really was such a special experience that I will forever hold in my heart with deep gratitude and reverence." ~Anaia Sundara

"Dance Meets Tantra was exactly what I was calling in, everything I didn’t know I needed, and beyond all my expectations all at the same time. I firmly believe that vulnerability and deep transformation in group contexts becomes possible when the container is IMPECCABLY held, where safety and invitation and expert facilitation are held in paramount importance…and not every event has that. DMT does. This team brings such a thoughtful, attentive approach towards the day and held the group with perfection, which allowed me to LET GO on a profound level. I felt the safety and space to connect with my body and with tender edges of my sexuality and expression, with the knowledge that I was deeply loved and celebrated in all of my rawness. I left DMT with a deeper understanding and embrace of my own desires, and with transformation in my relationship with my partner. My partner and I faced edges alone and together, and within DMT had the structure to lean into those and emerge in deeper love." ~Megan Beatty

Feel free to check out our website for many many more testimonials <3

Thank you, thank you. Can't wait to connect. ~

- Chloe, Spencer & the rest of the Dance Meets Tantra team