"The Algorithmic Divide: How the Internet is Pulling Men and Women Further Apart"

"The Algorithmic Divide: How the Internet is pulling men and women further apart"
with Ellie Softley

From dating apps to TikTok feeds, algorithms are quietly shaping how we see ourselves - and each other. This talk explores the growing algorithmic divide between men and women, and how online spaces are intensifying gendered worldviews in very different ways.

We’ll examine why many young men are drawn to right-wing politics, often through the manosphere's business model: one that promises belonging and offers simple answers to loneliness and isolation. For some, this content fills a real emotional gap - but it can also funnel frustration into radicalisation and extremist misogyny.

At the same time, many women are being pulled leftward. Shaped by constant exposure to online misogyny and culture-war narratives about women's choices. We’ll unpack viral flashpoints, from the rise of OnlyFans content creators to the “trad wife” aesthetic, offering an insight into how algorithms are dividing men and women.

We will highlight the gendered content ecosystems that have become normalised and what this means for our relationships, political ideologies and trust. Over a pint, we’ll ask: how did we get here - and how do we help men and women to connect again?

Bio
Ellie Softley is the Chief of Staff at Everyone’s Invited and one of the founding members of the movement. Since its inception, she has played a central role in shaping the organisation’s mission to expose and eradicate rape culture through education, survivor support, and systemic change. With a background in sexual health education and political activism, she has worked extensively with students, educators, and institutions across the UK to address misogyny, sexual violence, and gender-based harm. She led the creation and delivery of Everyone’s Invited’s first national education programme. As Chief of Staff, she oversees the organisation’s strategic direction, internal operations, and project development. She is the founder and lead developer of Everyone’s Invited’s Anti-Misogyny Training, a pioneering programme designed to tackle the root causes of gender-based violence through staff development and student engagement. Widely recognised for her expertise in this area, she has worked with school leaders, safeguarding professionals, police and young people to build safer, more inclusive learning environments.

Venue:
Camden Town Brewery Beer Hall
Kentish Town
NW5 3ED

15 minute walk from Camden Town tube station (Northern line) and 10 minutes from Kentish Town station (Northern line). 1 minute from Kentish Town West (Mildmay line).

Event Running Time:
Doors: 7pm
Introduction: 7:25pm
Lecture: 7:30pm
Q&A: 8:10pm

Food:
If you plan on eating at the venue, we recommend arriving as early as possible so the kitchen can get your order out before the talk starts.

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