"Kinks and Connection: A Scientific Guide to Sex and Relationships"

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"Kinks and Connection: A Scientific Guide to Sex and Relationships"
With Dr. Ashley Brown

Summary
This is a research-informed guide to how sexual desire, kink, and relationships actually work. We'll be de-bunking many pop psychology myths along the way as we discuss desire, arousal, and practical tips to improve your relationships.

First we'll explore what sex really is, how it works, and how we develop kinks of all kinds. Next we'll explore the contexts that shape intimacy, like stress, health, and relationship dynamics. Finally, we move from theory to practical, evidence-based sex and relationship tools: how conflict patterns escalate, what active listening looks like, and how to negotiate boundaries in ways that reduce defensiveness and improve closeness. The takeaway is a shift from "kink vs vanilla sex" and "good vs bad relationships" toward wellbeing outcomes: connection, pleasure, and effective communication.


Bio
Dr. Ashley Brown is a Lecturer in Health Psychology at King's College London's Institute of Psychiatry, Psychology & Neuroscience. She co-leads the LGBTQ+ Mental Health Research Group and focuses her research on sexual functioning and distress in minoritized populations, including individuals with long-term health conditions and those who are transgender and gender diverse. She also researches paraphilias (kinks), how these relate to broader sexual fantasy and behaviour patterns, and their relationship with neurodevelopmental correlates. Dr. Brown clinically specialises in complex trauma, sex and relationships, and adjusting to chronic illness.

Venue:
The George IV, Chiswick
185 Chiswick High Street
W4 2DR


Event Running Time:
(we recommend arriving at 6:30pm if you're eating, and 7pm if drinks only)
Doors from 6pm
Introduction: 7:25pm
Lecture: 7:30pm
Q&A: 8:10pm

Food:
If you plan on eating at the venue, we recommend arriving as early as possible so the kitchen can get your order out before the talk starts.

FAQs:

What is Pints of Knowledge?

Pints of Knowledge is a series of public talks where experts, researchers, and big thinkers share fascinating ideas all in the relaxed setting of a pub. We bring brilliant minds and curious audiences together over a pint, covering topics from science and politics to history, art, and beyond.

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At each Pints of Knowledge event, you’ll hear engaging talks (approx. 40 minutes) from expert speakers on fascinating topics — followed by an audience Q&A (approx. 20 minutes). The vibe is informal and social, set in a pub where you can grab a drink, meet interesting people, and enjoy big ideas in a relaxed setting.

What if I don't drink alcohol?

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Is there food available?

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Is the event pet friendly?

Yes, we allow pets to attend but reserve the right to request their removal if they are disruptive.