PLAYGLOW /// SHIBARI PLAY PARTY

PLAYGLOW — Shibari Play Party 

PlayGlow is our 2026 monthly signature play night.
A neon-lit rope play party for people who are in love with Kinbaku / Shibari and want a community led safe space, to connect, flirt, and play. It’s a party night: music, movement, open rope play, and playful energy  ✨

What to expect

• Welcome + consent & safety briefing (mandatory)
• Optional warm-up prompts to break the ice
• Open rope play with a party vibe (you choose your pace)
• Tea, coffee, and good humans

Who it’s for

• All levels: beginners to experienced rope lovers
• Solo attendees welcome (come open to meeting new people)
• Friends and couples welcome
• All identities and relationship styles welcome — as long as you respect the vibe and the rules

Rope-first play (the vibe of the night)

Play is welcome at PlayGlow — sensual, erotic, kinky energy included — as long as rope is part of the scene.
This is a rope-led night: tying, rope handling, rope sensation, rope structure and rope dynamics stay at the centre.

Everything happens in a shared studio space, so we keep play consensual, mindful, and respectful of the room.
If you’re unsure whether something fits, ask a host.

What’s permitted (with consent + negotiation)

These are allowed when rope is involved, clearly negotiated, and practiced safely:

• Impact play (hands, paddles, floggers, etc.)
• Electric play (experienced players only — negotiate clearly and use responsibly)
• Role play / power dynamics (consensual, no intimidation of bystanders)
• Clean wax play (see rules below)
• Toys and touch as supportive elements to a rope-led scene

Sexual activity policy

There will be a play only space where rope and full play is allowed.
Non-penetrative sensual play is welcome in the rest of the space 
when it remains rope-led, and Enthusiastically consensual.

Wax rules (clean + respectful)

Wax is permitted only if it’s clean and controlled:

• Drip-only (no messy pooling)
• Use a towel / barrier under the body
• Keep it contained + easy to clean
• You must clean fully after your scene
  (If it risks mess on shared surfaces, it’s a no.)

Hard limits (not allowed)

• Needle play
• Blood / cutting
• Scat
• Watersports
• Drugs 

Consent + care (non-negotiable)

• “No” means "No", no explanations needed.
  
• Ask first. Negotiate clearly (touch, intensity, tools, photos, aftercare).
• Anyone can pause/stop play at any time.
• Photos only allowed with explicit consent from everyone in the frame.
• Any discrimination, harassment, coercion, or unsafe behaviour = removal.

Inclusivity

This is an LGBTQI / FLINTA / QUEER / POC all-identities friendly event.
Come as you are and treat others with respect.

PLAYGLOW — Dress Code (Fetish • Fantasy • Glow)

Playglow is not a “going-out in normal clothes” party.
Make yourself so hot that everyone wants to play with you, dress and undress to impress.
Come dressed to play: kinky, bold, theatrical, glittering, or beautifully strange.
If you look like you’re heading to a pub/club in regular outfits, you may be turned away.

✅ YES PLEASE (what works)

Pick one or mix several:

Fetish / Kink

• Latex / PVC / vinyl / patent

• Leather / harnesses / collars

• Lingerie, fetish lingerie, bodysuits

• Straps, chains, cuffs, corsets, garters

• Sensual “minimal” looks when intentional (e.g., harness + lingerie + boots)

Glam / Cabaret / Carnival

• Glitter, sequins, metallics

• Cabaret / burlesque / showgirl vibes

• Masks, headpieces, feathers, dramatic make-up

• Elegant eveningwear with an edge (sheer, cut-outs, fetish styling, bold accessories)

Fantasy / Costume / “Unusual”

• Costume looks (cyber, gothic, angel/demon, fetish clown, circus, sci-fi, etc.)

• Gender-play, drag, theatrical character looks

• Anything colourful, strange, expressive, or artful

GLOW (highly encouraged)

• Neon / UV reactive fabrics

• LED accessories, EL wire, glowing jewellery

• Body paint, fluorescent make-up, reflective pieces

Footwear (Shoeless party)
The studio floor is soft  you 'll leave oyur shoes at the entrance

🚫 NOT OK (what will get you refused)

• Streetwear / regular club wear (you know the vibe: basic top + jeans)

• Jeans / denim

• Sportswear (tracksuits, gym gear)

• Trainers / running shoes

• Basic underwear-as-an-outfit (plain everyday bra/boxers with no styling)

• Casual basics: hoodies, everyday t-shirts, “I didn’t try” looks

• Anything hateful, unsafe, or non-consensual in messaging (no racist/violent symbols)

Quick “am I good?” checklist

If your outfit says fetish / fantasy / cabaret / glow at first glance, you’re good.
If it says “normal Saturday night”, upgrade it.

Easy upgrades: harness, latex element, glitter/metallic layer, mask, boots, neon accessory, dramatic make-up.

Capacity

Limited ticket release. Please buy your ticket ahead once sold out, there’s no entry.

Refreshments

There will be Cake, there will be drinks, BYOB policy, bring snacks

How to get there

Tube (Victoria Line): Seven Sisters (High Road / buses exit) or Tottenham Hale
Overground: South Tottenham (Suffragette Line) / Seven Sisters (Weaver Line)
Walk: approx. 10–13 minutes

Stansted Express:

• Liverpool Street → Tottenham Hale: 15 min
• Stansted Airport → Tottenham Hale: 36 min

⚠️ ATTENTION

Make sure you go to Fountayne Road, N15 (NOT N16).
Entrance via building number 7 courtyard.
Ring number 2, or WhatsApp/call: 07772 955 639

Unconditional Rope Love to all 🖤✨