Exploring the Erøtic Shadow

𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐 𝑫𝒆𝒂𝒓 𝑶𝒏𝒆!

Yay - excited to invite you to my main offering in Berlin!

This event is an opportunity for you as an adult to learn, grow, expand and get educated about your body, soul, psyche and eros.

This full day gathering allows us all to dive even deeper and get the juiciest and richest experience possible.

This day is planned and designed in such way that it won't overwhelm our nervous systems - but guide them back into the awakened and juicy form that they were once used to. DEEP but SLOW is my motto these days!

(Before buying a ticket or contacting me, please 𝑹𝑬𝑨𝑫 𝑻𝑯𝑬 𝑾𝑯𝑶𝑳𝑬 𝑬𝑽𝑬𝑵𝑻 𝑫𝑬𝑺𝑪𝑹𝑰𝑷𝑻𝑰𝑶𝑵 𝒖𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒍 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒃𝒐𝒐𝒕𝒐𝒎 - prices, and logistics you´ll find also there - 𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌 𝒚𝒐𝒖!)

This event is an invitation to look beyond what you already know. To open up to yourself as a sensual and s.xual being and dive into the world of shadow exploration and conscious touch.

Playful. Sensual. Kinky. Tantric. Heart connected. Authentic. Liberated.

𝒀𝑶𝑼𝑹 €𝑹Ø𝑻𝑰𝑪 𝑺𝑯𝑨𝑫𝑶𝑾.

According to Sigmund Freud a shadow is everything that lies in the subconscious.

So maybe you are aware or not yet aware, of your subconscious or even conscious wishes, but I'm asking you:

Do you already live them? Are you allowing them to be seen, heard and fully embodied?

Or are they lurking somewhere in your inner fantasy land and don´t know yet how to be brought safely and sensually into this reality?

THIS IS WHY WE GATHER FOR THIS EVENT….to bring all those hidden and secretive parts of us to the surface. Allow them, give them space and celebrate them.

Be US in our authentic expression!

To become whole and to not feel shame for ourselves for who we are as 𝒔.𝒙𝒖𝒂𝒍 𝒃𝒆𝒊𝒏𝒈𝒔 𝒊𝒏 𝒂 𝒉𝒖𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒃𝒐𝒅𝒚 but to tap into the celebration of this life!

Celebration through consent, movement, conscious touch, tantra, kink and ritual.

No more need to be afraid to be seen in your erotic expression.

No more need to be afraid to be heard in your tender and raw sensuality.

The EROTIC SHADOW is that place, that maybe feels a bit taboo or uncomfortable. Maybe it makes you slightly blush when talking about it.

Dominance, submission, pain and pleasure, powerplay, play with the senses, seduction, striptease, role play….you name it.

Trancelike hidden behind velvet curtains that are only lifted for the ones who dare to enter.


𝑾𝑯𝑨𝑻 𝑾𝑰𝑳𝑳 𝑾𝑬 𝑩𝑬 𝑫𝑶𝑰𝑵𝑮?

This is a trauma informed event and a day full of Tantra, Kink and Ritual and I have a great idea of what will happen, yet also throwing myself into the mysteries of the unknown by allowing myself to adjust and change my ideas according to the group's energy and needs.

From getting to know each other and connecting to our hearts and whole body with tantric practices we will discover our internal attitude to surrender and being guided.

Connecting to our Erotic Alter Ego will set us up for a day of stepping beyond our usual patterns and will give each and every one of us a supporting 'person' at hand.

Facing our shame, transforming it through Emotional Alchemy and celebrating our liberated being in a movement ritual.

We will establish a communal language of consent and boundaries, a safe way to step into a scene and from there dive into Conscious Kinky touch and how to spread that sexual energy in your body.

As soft or feral as you want it to be. You are always in the drivers seat!

Verbal d/s play with the five senses in a heart-centered and curious way, microcosmic orbit combined with sensual impact and a cozy closure of this event will leave you nourished and awakened <3

How does your 𝐞̇𝒓ø𝒕𝒊𝒄 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒔𝒆𝒏𝒔𝒖𝒂𝒍 𝑺𝒆𝒍𝒇 move, touch and express?

How does your 𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒌𝒚 𝑺𝒆𝒍𝒇 move, touch and express?

What needs and desires do they have and what happens if they are allowed to emerge out of the shadow into this realm of life?

Who are you in 𝑭𝑼𝑳𝑳 𝑷𝑬𝑹𝑴𝑰𝑺𝑺𝑰𝑶𝑵?


𝑾𝑯𝑨𝑻 𝒀𝑶𝑼 𝑾𝑰𝑳𝑳 𝑮𝑬𝑻 𝑶𝑼𝑻 𝑶𝑭 𝑻𝑯𝑰𝑺 𝑾𝑶𝑹𝑲𝑺𝑯𝑶𝑷:
- feeling connected to ALL of you

- reintroduction into the world of sensuality and kink

- the somatic experience that ALL of you is welcome

- tantric tools to bring into your kinky play

- kinky tools to implement into your tantric experience

- more safety in how to approach people and interact during play

- emotional alchemy tools

- reconnection to pleasure and joy in your life

- loads of yumminess in your body and mind


𝑾𝑯𝑶 𝑰𝑺 𝑻𝑯𝑰𝑺 𝑬𝑽𝑬𝑵𝑻 𝑭𝑶𝑹?
This event is for all genders, ages and sexual orientations. It might be that your preferred gender is not available for an exercise, so please be prepared to work with Everyone.

If you have a partner or friend that you want to do this workshop with...PLEASE BRING THEM! I will guide you into partnered exercises. It is a beautiful opportunity to deepen and explore your relationship with your beloved or to explore in a friendship bubble where you already feel some comfort or trust.

And if you don't have a partner...you are very welcome to participate as a single! There will be many open and like minded people and you won't feel awkward or alone!

Having some experience with s.x positive spaces is great, but you don't need to be a pro! :)

The only condition is that you have experience in expressing your boundaries and consent.



𝑮𝑶𝑶𝑫 𝑻𝑶 𝑲𝑵𝑶𝑾:
Every exercise is an invitation. There is nothing that you have to do and taking care of your boundaries and consent is highest priority at all times

This workshop is a workshop with physical and energetical touch



𝑾𝑯𝑨𝑻 𝑻𝑶 𝑩𝑹𝑰𝑵𝑮:

- Food for your late - lunch. Please note: in the area there is no really close supermarket and the next food option is a 15min walk

- Waterbottle that you can close - no open drinking containers allowed in the space

- Sarong or blanket to sit on or cover yourself

- Any sexy toys or tools that you might want to use on yourself or others

- a sexy outfit (see next point)


𝑾𝑯𝑨𝑻 𝑻𝑶 𝑾𝑬𝑨𝑹:
Come as your sexy self!

You can wear comfortable workshop clothes and the invitation is to wear something that makes you feel sensual and sexy - however that looks for you!

𝗣𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗲 𝗯𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗹𝘀𝗼 𝗮𝗻 𝗼𝘂𝘁𝗳𝗶𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗘𝗿𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗰 𝗦𝗵𝗮𝗱𝗼𝘄 𝗦𝗲𝗹𝗳 (hint: you feel sexy, sensual, feral, mysterious, daring or even ‘too much’ in it)


𝑪𝑶𝑵𝑻𝑹𝑰𝑩𝑼𝑻𝑰𝑶𝑵:
Early bird until 20.01.2022, 11.55pm: 89€
Regular ticket from 21.01.2022: 99€


𝑪𝑨𝑵𝑪𝑬𝑳𝑳𝑨𝑻𝑰𝑶𝑵 𝑷𝑶𝑳𝑰𝑪𝒀:
Until 14 days before event: 100% refund, minus ad administration fee of 5€

Until 7 days before event: 50% refund, minus ad administration fee of 5€

After 7 days: NO refund - sorry, but no exceptions! - I am liable for the financial planning of this event and for declining other participants once we are sold out.

If it is for sickness that you can not attend and you can provide proof for that, you will get a 50% voucher that you can use for any of my future events.


𝑾𝑯𝑬𝑹𝑬 & 𝑾𝑯𝑬𝑵?
IKSK - Institut für Körperforschung und sexuelle Kultur

Holzmarkt 25 Haus 2, 4. Etage, 10243 Berlin

𝙙𝙤𝙤𝙧𝙨 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙘𝙡𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙖𝙩 11.05 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙥!

We will gather at 11am (please plan for German punctuality as doors will be closed at 11.05!),
We will have a lunch break around 2pm and close the space around 9pm.


𝑪𝑶𝑽𝑰𝑫 𝑹𝑬𝑮𝑼𝑳𝑨𝑻𝑰𝑶𝑵𝑺:

According to the new regulations this event has to follow the 2G PLUS rules.

Please bring a text from THE SAME DAY!
Either from a testing center, or you can bring a self test and do it at the venue (plan the time in!) or you can do the self test at home. If you do it at home write your name and date on it BEFORE you do the test, take a picture, do the test, take another picture - we will check it :)

If you show up at the event and do not have a digital proof of your 2G status, participation for the event will be denied and there will be NO refund for your ticket. Sorry, but in order to be able to create such an event in these times I have to be strict here :(


𝑨𝑩𝑶𝑼𝑻 𝑻𝑯𝑬 𝑭𝑨𝑪𝑰𝑳𝑰𝑻𝑨𝑻𝑶𝑹:
Sanya Alaya is a trauma informed body and mind therapist, specialized in holistic wellbeing and sexuality. She is trained and certified by the Sexological Bodywork Institute, Erotic School of Mysteries and Creative Consciousness Coaching Academy.

She created her unique way of working with clients through her EMPLEASUREMENT™ METHOD, as a way to support healing, sensuality, and connectedness with the body.

Tantra, Tao, Shadow Work, Conscious Kink, Tantra Massage, Chi Nei Tsang, Dearmouring, Breathwork and Meditation were her own healing pathways and are woven into all her workshops and 1:1 sessions nowadays.

She transformed her experience of childhood trauma, autoimmune disease, chronic pain and insecurities into a fulfilled life of love, consciousness and pleasure.

Her heart mission is to empower her clients to embody their sensuality and wild self expression, love themselves, unravel conditioning and to be fully and unapologetically who they truly are.

To read more about her, follow these links:

www.sanyaalaya.com

https://linktr.ee/sanyaalaya