S*x gets better with age! Temple for sensual seekers of 40plus

Following a popular demand in the community I’m delighted to offer the Temple designed for humans aged 40 and more ✨ (the exception will be those with a younger partner you’d like to include). While age is most certainly just a number and not an identification tag, it’s also a fact that so many s*x positive spaces on the scene are designed for, and/or mostly frequented by, those in their twenties and thirties. This sadly sometimes puts off those with greater life experience who have so much depth to bring into relating, sensuality and intimacy.

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Having just gone through a mid life transition, I have an entirely different and perhaps more refined appreciation of my sexuality. Its subtlety. Its depth. Its darkness. Its healing potential. How much more discerning and careful I’ve become in sharing my erotic, life force energy with others, on all levels, not just explicitly sexual.

And so it is with pleasure and excitement that I’m inviting you into a co-created, tenderly held space designed to try different flavours of sensual pleasure, and particularly welcoming of those who might have shied away from attending similar events in the past for the fear of being excluded (and seasoned conscious sexuality practitioners too, of course!). 

Apart from floor matting and soft furnishings the space will feature a massage table we’ll be able to use for lomi lomi massage or other exchanges. We’re also blessed with a small kitchen separate from the main space, perfect for socialising.

If you happen to need childcare in order to attend the event, please reach out as there’s a potential opportunity to arrange this in a different section of the same building.

What to expect from a Temple event?

Following a couple of rituals and embodied consent exercises, there will be ample opportunity to explore being with others in all sorts of contexts. Temples often have a rep for being sexually charged spaces. While they can be, they absolutely don’t have to. One of the most beautiful facets of these events that each one is unique and unfolds according to the combined flow of  energies present in the space. Your experience will depend on where you are on your inner journey, interactions with beings you encounter, and, importantly, a degree to which you are able to stay present and in a state of curiosity/openness to each moment as it unfolds. Personally, I see them more as a sanctuary of connection in all its facets.

Some things that are completely beautiful and appropriate to do at a Temple:

• take in the space. Witness what is happening, not just in the space between humans but also within you. Plenty of times I found peace and nourishment doing just that.

• get social with like hearted humans. Talk about stuff of life just because it feels so good or have deeper, intimate conversations we rarely take time to have.

• get sensual. Temples, in my books, always encourage fully embodied experience. This can take all sorts of dimensions: maybe you feel like a sensual dance. Maybe you want to touch yourself mindfully and experience your body in a safe space (which is completely appropriate). Maybe you’d like to give to and receive from others all types of sensual touch that we rarely get to experience, even in our friendships and sex lives.

• unleash your inner animal. Feeling like a play fight or a feisty tickling/scratching contest? You’re in the right place! There’s a chance your inner beast is feeling sexy in which case why not..

• get your sexual juices fully flowing. This could mean so many things! Many beings typically want to experience others very slowly, starting with an energetic connection for example, and moving into a more physical and expressive.

• whip up your inner kinkster. Do you like dressing up? Using impact and/or sensual play toys? Role playing power dynamic scenarios? Temple is a beautiful place to play in this way, strictly within boundaries of everyone involved.

We are friendly and welcoming of diverse age, race, gender expressions as well as different body shapes and types of preferred sexual activity. The rules are:

• no alcohol or mind altering substances during and 12h before the event.
• keep checking in with yourself and any others involved: does this still feel like a fully body yes? Might I/we like to pause, take a break or do something else?
• attunement to the reality of another. Yes, everyone in a Temple is strictly responsible for their own experience and maintaining their boundaries moment to moment. And yet: the only way to interact with another beautifully is by paying attention to their expression and body language moment to moment.

Hosted by Paulina - conscious sexuality practitioner and space holder, neo tantrika, sensual domme and certified energy healer. Passionate about creating ritualistic and ceremonial containers and a whole variety of spiritual paths and practices. 

Refund policy:

No refunds offered. Ticket transfers available for anyone who diagnosed positive for Covid.

Lost property:

We are a small team. Unfortunately we can’t be held responsible or even, in most cases, help you recover any belongings left at the venue. Please keep them safe, particularly if precious!

Testimonials from past participants:

I really want you to know how immensely profoundly healing my experience was at last night's temple. For almost all of my adult life, sexuality has been a source of deep unhappiness for me (sexuality being something to be ashamed of, to be suppressed, and which has caused so much misery for me). I'm so overwhelmingly grateful to have discovered these temple events, and last night's temple was a huge huge life-transforming experience for me. It transcended anything I could possibly have hoped for. It was one of the most profoundly wonderful beautiful joyful loving intensely-pleasurable liberating healing euphoric experiences of my entire life. (…) I feel like my life has been profoundly irreversibly changed by this experience.

M.

A wonderful, well held evening spent with a diverse group of like-minded souls. The event had everything, warm hosts, delicious cacao and snacks, interesting conversations, and very juicy, sensual and delicious interactions.

A.

Having only been to one temple night previously that didn't seem to resonate, I was hesitant and anxious about attending another. However, I needn't have worried. As soon as I arrived, I was warmly greeted by Paulina, Margot and their helpers and immediately felt welcomed and included. After savouring some cacao and partaking in some introductory exercises to get everyone more acquainted, it turned into a beautiful warm loving evening with copious amounts of social, sensual and intimate exchanges. Can't wait for the next one.

P.

I was made to feel very welcome, despite being late to arrive, not just by the hosts but by everyone present. The acceptance of me as a person, probably at the extreme upper end of the age range present, was also profound. I had never been to anything of this type before, and for me the ceremony, the exercises on consent and then the free interactions were healing for me - especially as I have spent my entire adult life feeling unworthy of anyone's sexual attention.

R.

Paulina, my heartfelt thanks for creating such a rich, gentle and deep Temple Night at your home - and to Margot and Daniel for their holding. The location helped the evening have a particularly intimate quality. I enjoyed warm exchanges with many beautiful beings. It’s good to know there will be more gatherings.

D.