Fox Den Dine

The Fox Den cordially invites you to Fox Den Dine on Thursday 3 July. 🥂😁

Note from Foxy: "I am happy to announce the return of our flagship event Fox Den Dine. Whoop! I have always loved hosting dinner parties and getting to know people over dinner is such an organic way of meeting new friends. But Dine is more than just a dinner party. As well as fabulous food and company, it's a facilitated way of getting to know your fellow diners and who knows where the night might take you."

Here's what one female guest said about our April Dine: “Thank you for an incredible evening - my first Fox Den event. I was made to feel so welcome. Such a relaxed vibe and well organised with a great group of people. Looking forward to the next one already.”

Hosted in a fabulous private loft in east London, guests will get welcome cocktails on arrival followed by a three course sit down dinner cooked by a private chef (vegetarian with vegan / other dietary requirements on request). Guests will move seats between courses and connect with fellow guests through fun icebreakers. 

This beautiful loft has a bedroom and other spaces for play after dinner so is only open to vetted members. The play spaces are away from the main table so you are welcome to socialise after dinner without pressure.

Fox Den Dine featured in Series 2, Episode 2 of Sex Actually with Alice Levine on Channel 4 so if you would like a sneak peak at the dinner, then do have a watch.

Spaces are limited to 24. Buying a ticket is no guarantee of a space. If in the event we cannot accommodate you, your ticket will be refunded in full at least two weeks before the event. If you haven't heard from us 7 days before the event, please follow up, as sometimes our emails go into Spam. We hold no liability for no-shows who were notified of their place. (Please do not book transport or hotels until you have received a confirmation email from us.)

*Please note that tickets are sold in three categories: Female, Male and Non Binary. If you wish to be considered for the event with a friend, play partner or romantic partner, then please indicate on the checkout form who you are applying with and your application will be considered together.

**Please take the time to read our essay on safety and consent at sex positive events and The Ethics of the Sex Positive Scene.

The price for the evening is £79 + VAT per person (includes welcome cocktails, dinner, and play party but does not include wine with dinner. Please BYO a bottle or two to share.) Please read the FAQs for the event and especially the terms and conditions around refunds.

Sample dinner menu

Welcome cocktails

Aubergine medallion with vegan mozzarella, basil & parmesan (v)
Selection of homemade breads.

White Gourmet Lasagne with oyster, chestnut & shiitake mushroom, vegan cheese, parsley & white truffle oil (ve)

Mango mousse on ginger crust (v)

Coffee and petit fours

Doors open at 7pm. 
Carriages at 11pm. 
Dress code: Cocktail Attire (dresses, suits (not black tie) etc.)

Looking forward to dining with you in the Den.

Love Foxy 🦊
x

Feedback from previous Dine events:

“We just wanted to say a huge thank you for the dinner the other night. We had such a fantastic time! The venue was beautiful and you did a really great job with the guest list -- everyone was so friendly and fun. As newbies, we felt very welcome and quickly relaxed into the evening. The atmosphere was lovely and by the time things turned (very) spicy after dinner, we were as up for it as everyone else. What a night! We've become big fans of the Fox Den and will definitely be signing up for future events! Thanks very much again.”

“Thank you so much for organising the dinner. We had a lovely time and everyone was so friendly and we felt so welcomed. Looking forward to the next one.”

“I wanted to express that I was very impressed with the event. The crowd was lovely, I felt very welcome and enjoyed connecting with people. As it was my first party, and being an introvert, this kind of event is likely to be overwhelming. However, the setup with dine and icebreakers was a nice way to ease into the scene, and it was also a testament to the group that I felt so at ease.”

“I wanted to take the time to thank you for the event. It was really well thought. It provided a relaxed atmosphere, a mixed crowd (of all ages and walks of life) which made the evening an unforgettable experience. It was light, fun, and entertaining. It felt like a group of friends, you already knew. Thank you again for putting this together. I hope I will be able to come to many more!”

“Just wanted to say thank you for a brilliant evening, with a lovely crowd. It was a note perfect introduction to the scene. And I’m really looking forward to the next one.”

“It was an outstanding evening, great food, company and well conducted! Please pass our thanks to everyone involved, we will be giving rave reviews to all our friends and returning to more Fox Den events.”

“Just wanted to drop you a quick email to say thanks so much for last night. R and I had an amazing time, the whole thing was incredible. That’s only my 2nd ever sex positive event and you make everything so fun and friendly, (and sexy obviously!), that I don’t think I could have had a better introduction to this world, so thank you so so much!”

"Just wanted to drop you a quick note. I’m still buzzing from the dinner on Thursday. This was the absolute perfect setup and was magnificent on all fronts. For someone like me who’s not too experienced on the scene yet super demanding when it comes to the quality of events I attend, I went home blown away by the wonderful atmosphere and wanting more. It was very comfortable and super sexy. You’ve got quite an impressive skill at putting people together!"

"Thanks for inviting me to your brilliantly run even last night. Planning and putting on an event like that takes so much work, preparation, focus and flair - and I both noticed and appreciated that. Anyway, thanks again for including me and sending you all my best."

"Thank you for a lovely evening last night, very well hosted, a lot of fun, and exceeded my expectations!"

"Thank you so much. You’re fabulous and that was a fantastic evening. We had high expectations, and you managed to exceed them. Can’t wait for the next.!

"Yes thanks so much for a wonderful night - we honestly were so so happy it was beyond what we could have hoped for." 😊

"OMG that was wild. Thanks a million!"

Just wanted to say a huge thank you for organising such a brilliant night. Absolutely loved it. It was a really great mix of lovely people. The after party was rather fun too 😊. Thank you so much for being the best host.

Thanks so much for organizing and emceeing the Fox Den Dine on Wed. X and I both enjoyed ourselves and met, chatted and engaged with interesting people. The games were all really fun, and for my first play event, I felt very comfortable, so thanks..
"Thank you so much for last night. I had such an amazing night. Everyone was so wonderful!!"

"Just wanted to say that we both really enjoyed Thursday. Eye opening to say the least. The crowd were all intelligent, eclectic, welcoming, and x said the whole time she felt she was in a safe and comfortable environment which is important so that was great. It was nice to mix the singles and couples. We'd both definitely be interested in coming again in the future."

"Thanks again for having us on Thursday! Everything was perfect: the venue, the food, the ice-breakers and of course the company. Needless to say we had a wonderful time."

"Thank you very much for the event! It was honestly incredibly welcoming and very well set up. I think you have done an incredible job."

"Hello Foxy, just to say thank you for a fabulous evening, beautifully curated and fabulously hosted :)"

"I wanted to say a big thank you for your amazing hosting and event on Thursday…I had a blast!
Thoroughly enjoyed meeting x and x, and many others! Let me know when the next one is and hope I can attend…"

"Thank you so much for hosting a wonderful night. The food was great and the company even better."

"We had a really great time. It was a really positive first experience of this as a couple and will definitely get out to play again soon. Thank you for organising it."

"Foxy - thanks for a great night and introducing us to some amazing people! We'll look forward to our next chance to get to one of your events."

Frequently Asked Questions and Terms & Conditions

I can no longer attend. Can I get a refund?

Tickets are strictly non-refundable and non-transferable to another event or person. However, we may make an exception to this clause if the event sells out so another member can attend. In this case, we will attempt to transfer your ticket to the next member on the waiting list if you give us enough notice. This may incur an administration fee of £20 per person (not booking). Testing positive for Covid is not grounds for a refund. If you disregard these terms and attempt to sell your place to another member without our permission, this will result in an immediate membership ban. Please do not book a ticket if you do not want to accept these terms of sale, thank you.

If you can no longer make the event, please let us know on the day / evening. Members consistently buying tickets and not attending without letting us know will be removed from the membership as this takes away a potential space for another member. Thanks for understanding.

I’m not a member, can I buy a ticket?

In short, no. Fox Den events with play spaces are only open to registered members. This is to ensure that all guests attending a play event have signed up to The Fox Den Code of Conduct providing a respectful and safe environment for everyone. You will need to supply your membership number as part of the ticket buying process. You can apply for free membership here. (Do not attempt to buy a ticket without a membership number as this will result in an immediate membership ban.

When can I know the address of the venue?

The address for the venue will be emailed to guests the week of the event but it is a 7 minute walk from Haggerston station and 20 minutes from Old Street station.

What do I need to bring to get in?

Entry is only possible with your personalised ticket and photo ID. This will be cross checked with our membership list. If there isn't a photographic match, there will be no entry. Entry is always at the management’s discretion.

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