Fox Den Below

The Fox Den cordially invites you to Fox Den Below on Friday 25 July 2025. 😈

Nervous about coming to a smaller Fox Den play event? Then Below could be the party for you. With more guests than Playtime, Fantasy and Dungeon and multiple social areas as well as play spaces, Below is a super social event and a great way to get to know your fellow members. 

Here's what one solo guest said about our December Below: “As a single woman who had never attended a play event before, I had some concerns doing so on my own. My main fear was what kind of expectations there might be put on me. Would I have to engage in play? Would I be deemed prude or a killjoy if I didn't feel it? Reading your essay on safety, particularly the emphasis on attending a Fox Den event not with the expectation to have sex but to have a good time and engage with like minded people totally eased that fear and gave me the confidence to enjoy the event with all my playful sassy parts :) I felt very welcomed by the community and at no point pressured to do anything I wasn't absolutely game for. Definitely looking forward to attending more events in the future.” ❣️

Our venue for the evening is a spacious, light filled private basement residence with multiple areas and equipment to play with, so is only open to vetted members. After being greeted at the door, head to the kitchen to get your welcome cocktail and meet fellow guests. Relax in the spacious seating area or in the Moroccan-inspired semi-outdoor seating space, while observing all the fun of the dungeon area. There are two separate bedrooms for play as well.

Foxy and Vixens are there to make guests feel at home and make connections to other members so please feel free to come solo. We are a super friendly bunch! 🧡

Spaces are limited to 50 and to ensure the right balance between genders, ages, sexual orientation etc., guests are required to share information about themselves on the check out form. Buying a ticket is no guarantee of a space. If in the event we cannot accommodate you, your ticket will be refunded in full at least two weeks before the event. First come, first considered so we recommend early applications. If you haven't heard from us 7 days before the event, please follow up, as sometimes our emails go into Spam. We hold no liability for no-shows who were notified of their place. (Please do not book transport or hotels until you have received a confirmation email from us.)

*Please note that tickets are sold in three categories: Female, Male and Non Binary. If you wish to be considered for the event with a friend, play partner or romantic partner, then please indicate on the checkout form who you are applying with and your application will be considered together.

**Please take the time to read our essay on safety and consent at sex positive events and my latest essay on The Ethics of the Sex Positive Scene.

The price for the evening is £55 + VAT per person which includes a welcome cocktail or two (including non-alcoholic options). The rest of the event is BYO so please bring your own extra drinks. We will provide glasses, ice and some soft drinks.

Doors open at 8pm.
Carriages at 1am.
Dress code: Sexy / Fetish i.e. dress sexy and make an effort. Strictly no jeans, street clothes or something you would wear to work (no black trousers / white shirt combos). The venue has spaces to change so you are welcome to change there after work. Shoes and heels are welcome in the space. 

Please note that men must make as much effort as women with their attire and appearance. Here is a Pinterest with ideas of what to wear for all genders.

Please note that while vaping is permitted in the enclosed seating area, we cannot allow anyone to leave the building to smoke so please plan accordingly.

Looking forward to playing with you Below.

Love Foxy 🦊
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Feedback for Fox Den Below:

“I just wanted to write and thank you for yet another stunning party. You always curate a phenomenal guest list, and this event especially let attendees experience the beautiful energy you have built within this wonderful community. It was wonderful to see old faces, have lots of steamy fun, and make new friends and connections. Everything flowed perfectly from the moment members walked in the door and were greeted all the way through to the end of the night. I still have that lovely afterglow feeling you can only get from a party where everything comes together perfectly, so thank you!!!”

“I wanted to thank you again for a great night. It is exceptional how you’ve created such a wonderful group, keeping the space fun and safe. It was only my second time in a sex-positive event and my first by myself, so I was anxious. I was amazed at how quickly the stress went away and how much fun I had.”

“Hello Foxy, the event was awesome and everybody was very friendly, the Vixens were very welcoming! I had great fun and was able to find something about myself by pushing myself outside of my comfort zone. I'll definitely come back to other Fox Den events in the future. Thank you for everything!”

“Sorry this is a bit belated but I wanted to say a massive thank you to @Sinead and all the Vixens on Friday night for making Below so much fun! Lots of kind, friendly, interesting & attractive people there. Brilliant equipment; such a great way to try things before making the commitment to buy. The dungeon master was helpful & fascinating and I really enjoyed my first flogging at his hands. Honestly just a joyful night all round, can’t wait for the next one!”

“Such a great first experience of both Fox Den, and of this kind of event in general! Everyone was super friendly and very welcoming, myself and my play partner felt very comfortable the whole time. Thanks again for organising, looking forward to attending the next event!”

“I had an amazing time at the party, thanks so much for organising it. Met tons of interesting people and had loads of fun. It felt like a good turnout too - not too overwhelming. Beautiful flat, great toys/set up and it was nice to have a shower in the bathroom too. Appreciated the soft drinks too since I don't really drink.”

“Just wanted to say a huge thanks from R. and I. We had a great night, it was a really lovely introduction to the community. Congrats, and thank you for putting it together! Looking forward to the next one.”

Feedback from previous small Fox Den events:

"My feedback is all exceptionally positive! It was very well organised and easily one of the best small parties I have done in a long time. I met some great people with whom I hope to keep in touch. One particular thing I appreciated was how welcome I felt as a single man. As a committed solo poly man, I often find it difficult to do events alone. Many parties won't allow me to attend by myself so I depend on partners for entry, which is a difficult dynamic for a committed single person; as if I only have value if I have a partner willing to vouch for me. It's a very mono-normative standard. But the parties that do allow single men often charge a fortune and cram them in, without thinking about whether it is safe and welcoming for everyone else. This can be even more uncomfortable, in a different way. So it was really nice to do an event as a single guy, but still feel part a positive, happy group dynamic. And well done you for curating such a great vibe. I know how special that is.”

“I just wanted to say wow. What a fantastic evening! I was a little worried about coming to an event of this size but the mix of people you’d put together worked really well. The venue was great as were all the toys that were on offer as I got to try some things I haven’t used before with my play partner and I loved them. Met some lovely people and enjoyed playing with some of them as well 😊”

“A massive thank you for all the work you have done building such a wonderful group. As a newcomer, I found the evening exhilarating, liberating, and in layman's terms - sexy as fuck! As a hostess, I loved your charisma, intelligence and I especially appreciated the effort you made in making sure we felt welcomed and "part of". I felt the ice breaker games at the start alleviated my nerves and anxieties. I enjoyed chatting, watching and playing around like-minded people. I loved playing with the variety of whips and using a sex swing for the first time.”

Frequently Asked Questions and Terms & Conditions

I can no longer attend. Can I get a refund?

Tickets are strictly non-refundable and non-transferable to another event or person. However, we may make an exception to this clause if the event sells out so another member can attend. In this case, we will attempt to transfer your ticket to the next member on the waiting list if you give us enough notice. This will incur an administration fee of £20 per person (not booking). Testing positive for Covid is not grounds for a refund. If you disregard these terms and attempt to sell your place to another member without our permission, this will result in an immediate membership ban. Please do not book a ticket if you do not want to accept these terms of sale, thank you.

If you can no longer make the event, please let us know on the day / evening. Members consistently buying tickets and not attending without letting us know will be removed from the membership as this takes away a potential space for another member and can upset the balance of an event. Thanks for understanding.

I’m not a member, can I buy a ticket?

In short, no. Fox Den events with play spaces are only open to registered members. This is to ensure that all guests attending a play event have signed up to The Fox Den Code of Conduct providing a respectful and safe environment for everyone. You will need to supply your membership number as part of the ticket buying process. You can apply for free membership here. If you are not a vetted member, do not attempt to buy tickets as this will result in an immediate membership ban.)

When can I know the address of the venue?

The address for the venue will be emailed to guests at least one week before the event but it is a couple of minutes walk from Old Street tube.

Can I bring my own drinks?

Yes you may as the venue does not have an alcohol license. We will provide a welcome cocktail, glasses, ice and some soft drinks. There are two supermarkets within a few minutes walk.

Can I do wax, blood or similar types of play?

No. This type of play is not allowed by the venue.

Will you provide impact toys?

Yes, a large selection, but feel free to also bring your own.

What do I need to bring to get in?

Entry is only possible with your personalised ticket and photo ID. This will be cross checked with our membership list. If there isn't a photographic match, there will be no entry. Entry is always at the management’s discretion.

📷 of Natalie by @vessi_ves at The Fox Den: Theatre de Vampires.