Fox Den Fantasy

The Fox Den cordially invites you to Fox Den Fantasy on Wednesday 30 July 2025. 😍

Note from Foxy: "The idea for Fox Den Fantasy came from speaking to some members who had attended Foxy Playtime and, despite the icebreakers and friendly group, found they were too shy to ask a fellow guest to play. Others had unfulfilled fantasies or desires that they would have liked to explore but didn't get the opportunity. Fox Den Fantasy was born to give guests a safe, supported and facilitated space to share your desires without judgement and try new experiences."

Here's what a guest said about a previous Fantasy : “Thanks so much for having me along to Fox Den Fantasy, I had a really lovely time! As I said on the night - perhaps too often - it was a little daunting coming solo to my first event of that kind. Having heard friends speak so highly of you, and Fox Den events in general, and from reading the great testimonials you include in your event descriptions, I thought I'd try to get over my nerves and take a leap of faith. I'm really glad I did. The group was so lovely; really open, welcoming, friendly, and also hot! Your facilitation set the scene really well; light-hearted and irreverent, but never patronising and with such well-placed reminders about the importance of consent and respect. It felt like a really safe place to be, in so many senses of the word.” ❣️

We will kick the evening off with fun icebreakers to get to know each other better. Then we will have facilitated exercises to help you articulate your desires and express your boundaries in a safe way. (Please note that guests must arrive by 7.45pm for the introduction and exercises to create a safe and shared space.)

Desires and fantasies can be shared in two ways. On the checkout form, there is space to submit any desires or fantasies that you would like to try. This could be anything from trying a new impact toy or piece of furniture or more play oriented like a certain group dynamic that you haven't tried before. Or perhaps you need something more sensual and caring like kissing, cuddling or massage. These will be shared on a Wall of Desire (with your permission). Don't worry if you can't think of anything in advance, there will be time and space to facilitate this on the night. Everything is welcome and everything is confidential and not shared outside the group. ❤️

Our venue for the evening is a fabulous underground fantasy lair, with five differently designed spaces to play in, so is only open to vetted members.

The space features:

-Chinese-style pink play room.
-Dungeon with a sex swing, worship throne, spanking bench, suspension bar and selection of impact and sensation toys.
-Forest room to relax or play in (also suspension hook).
-Castle room with a huge black wipe proof bed for play.
-Cage with rigging points and a blackout coffin.
-Kitchen / seating area to relax and chat in.

Spaces are limited to 30 and to ensure the right balance between genders, ages, sexual orientation etc., guests are required to share information about themselves on the check out form. Buying a ticket is no guarantee of a space. If in the event we cannot accommodate you, your ticket will be refunded in full at least two weeks before the event. If you haven't heard from us 7 days before the event, please follow up, as sometimes our emails go into Spam. We hold no liability for no-shows who were notified of their place. (Please do not book transport or hotels until you have received a confirmation email from us.)

*Please note that tickets are sold in three categories: Female, Male and Non Binary. If you wish to be considered for the event with a friend, play partner or romantic partner, then please indicate on the checkout form who you are applying with and your application will be considered together. 

**Please take the time to read our essay on safety and consent at sex positive events and my latest essay on The Ethics of the Sex Positive Scene.

The price for the evening is £49 + VAT per person. The venue is BYO so please bring your own drinks. We will provide glasses, ice and some soft drinks and snacks.

Doors open at 7pm.
Introduction & exercises at 7.45pm.
Close at 11.45pm.

Dress code: Sexy / Fantasy i.e. dress sexy. Strictly no jeans, street clothes or your work clothes. The venue has a no shoe policy. The venue has a gorgeous dressing room so you are welcome to change there.

Please note that men must make as much effort as women with their attire and appearance. Here is a Pinterest with ideas of what to wear for all genders.

Looking forward to playing with you in the Den.

Love Foxy 🦊
x

📷 with thanks to Pexels.

Feedback for previous Fox Den Fantasy:

“As our first foray into play this was brilliantly executed. We found at least 20 new friends all of whose names we remember, everyone at the event was a delight to talk to. Even though we heard about others' positive experiences at TG and KK - FD is the space we want to play in and are thankful for. Our relationship is sacred, but opening up in the community you have curated is next level. We are growing in confidence, learning to have greater clarity and improve our communication skills. You also have the great challenge of growing the community whilst maintaining its intimate and caring feel, all while continuing to facilitate our wildest dreams - more please.”

“Great facilitation, lovely crowd, and the venue size / layout / options work really well. It's the second Fantasy I've been to, and the second time I've come away from it having made new friends, where we've immediately been in touch the following day to share our enthusiasm for the evening! Very much feels like it's not only providing a fun evening, but helping build that genuine 'community' people talk about so often. Huge thanks to you.”

“I just wanted to say I really enjoyed my first time at the Fox Den. I didn't come on my own, but would have felt comfortable as a single woman. I very much appreciated the excellent facilitation and focus on consent alongside chill vibes. I look forward to attending more events.”

“Thanks so much for having me along to Fox Den Fantasy, I had a really lovely time! As I said on the night - perhaps too often - it was a little daunting coming solo to my first event of that kind. Having heard friends speak so highly of you, and Fox Den events in general, and from reading the great testimonials you include in your event descriptions, I thought I'd try to get over my nerves and take a leap of faith. I'm really glad I did. The group was so lovely; really open, welcoming, friendly, and also hot! Your facilitation set the scene really well; light-hearted and irreverent, but never patronising and with such well-placed reminders about the importance of consent and respect. It felt like a really safe place to be, in so many senses of the word.”

“Thank you so much for making this event! I really appreciate that there’s a space where I can feel safe to explore my fantasies so deeply. It was an incredible night and I had an amazing experience! I love the energy you bring and the way you hold the evening - the initial circle and consent exercises felt positive, encouraging and playful whilst giving important feedback and - which particularly helped me feel good in the free flow - the knowledge that you're watching and really noticing what’s going on.”

“Just that it was a great event. My favourite format so far. Lots of lovely people and it seemed a carefully collated guest list with lots of compatible fantasies. I'm always nervous attending events on my own, but that rapidly disappeared and I made lots of new connections and realised all of my fantasies… Thank you again for your amazing organisational skills.”

“J and I absolutely loved the event. The people were absolutely incredible, everyone was so friendly, welcoming and open. They made us both really comfortable and then confident as we spoke to people keen to play. The format was fantastic. Just having the Fantasy title meant we had plenty of conversations about experiences we wanted to have, and then ticked off quite a few of them. We’ve made some great new friends and will definitely be coming back for more fantasy nights.”

“The crowd, place and format were all phenomenal! Would highly recommend and hope to attend the next one again.”

Feedback from previous events at this venue:

"My feedback is all exceptionally positive! It was very well organised and easily one of the best small parties I have done in a long time. I met some great people with whom I hope to keep in touch. One particular thing I appreciated was how welcome I felt as a single man. As a committed solo poly man, I often find it difficult to do events alone. Many parties won't allow me to attend by myself so I depend on partners for entry, which is a difficult dynamic for a committed single person; as if I only have value if I have a partner willing to vouch for me. It's a very mono-normative standard. But the parties that do allow single men often charge a fortune and cram them in, without thinking about whether it is safe and welcoming for everyone else. This can be even more uncomfortable, in a different way. So it was really nice to do an event as a single guy, but still feel part a positive, happy group dynamic. And well done you for curating such a great vibe. I know how special that is.”

“I just wanted to say wow. What a fantastic evening! I was a little worried about coming to an event of this size but the mix of people you’d put together worked really well. The venue was great as were all the toys that were on offer as I got to try some things I haven’t used before with my play partner and I loved them. Met some lovely people and enjoyed playing with some of them as well 😊”

“A massive thank you for all the work you have done building such a wonderful group. As a newcomer, I found the evening exhilarating, liberating, and in layman's terms - sexy as fuck! As a hostess, I loved your charisma, intelligence and I especially appreciated the effort you made in making sure we felt welcomed and "part of". I felt the ice breaker games at the start alleviated my nerves and anxieties. I enjoyed chatting, watching and playing around like-minded people. I loved playing with the variety of whips and using a sex swing for the first time.”

“Loved my first Foxy Playtime event...completely different but equally as good as the Lounge. The different rooms to choose between were great...especially the dungeon room and equipment 😏Great crowd again...as I always find!”

"I wanted to drop you an email to say thank you for the party last night. xx and I had a fantastic time and loved every minute. The evening was well organised, friendly and inclusive, more so than any other even either of us have ever been to. Everyone we met was warm and welcoming and a good time was had by all. We very much look forward to the next one."

“Absolutely fabulous time!!! Loved the space, everyone was so friendly and respectful.”

“Thanks so much for a great eve!! Really liked the venue and atmosphere.”

"Thank you for a lovely evening, Foxy. The effort put in was appreciated and more than worth the journey time."

"Thank you again for hosting such a wonderful evening."

"That party was OFF THE CHARTS!"

"Thank you again for putting together another night in yet a different format to explore yesterday."

"Thank you for a wonderful party! It was amazing. Everyone was so impressed and super happy. Cannot wait for another one."

Frequently Asked Questions and Terms & Conditions

I can no longer attend. Can I get a refund?

Tickets are strictly non-refundable and non-transferable to another event or person. However, we may make an exception to this clause if the event sells out so another member can attend. In this case, we will attempt to transfer your ticket to the next member on the waiting list if you give us enough notice. This will incur an administration fee of £15 per person (not booking). Testing positive for Covid is not grounds for a refund. If you disregard these terms and attempt to sell your place to another member without our permission, this will result in an immediate membership ban. Please do not book a ticket if you do not want to accept these terms of sale, thank you.

If you can no longer make the event, please let us know on the day / evening. Members consistently buying tickets and not attending without letting us know will be removed from the membership as this takes away a potential space for another member. Thanks for understanding.

I’m not a member, can I buy a ticket?

In short, no. Fox Den events with play spaces are only open to registered members. This is to ensure that all guests attending a play event have signed up to The Fox Den Code of Conduct providing a respectful and safe environment for everyone. You will need to supply your membership number as part of the ticket buying process. You can apply for free membership here. If you are not a vetted member, do not attempt to buy tickets as this will result in an immediate membership ban.)

When can I know the address of the venue?

The address for the venue will be emailed to guests at least one week before the event but it is a 7 minute walk from Hoxton Station.

Can I bring my own drinks?

Yes you may as the venue does not have an alcohol license. We will provide glasses, ice and some soft drinks. There is a supermarket one minute from the venue.

Will there be a House Dominant?

There will not be a House Dominant or Playroom Monitor at this event due to its size. Guest who wish to use the BDSM equipment in the Dungeon or the cage / coffin do so at their own risk. Foxy will be the monitor at this event. 

What do I need to bring to get in?

Entry is only possible with your personalised ticket and photo ID. This will be cross checked with our membership list. If there isn't a photographic match, there will be no entry. Entry is always at the management’s discretion.