Foxy Playtime

The Fox Den cordially invites you to Foxy Playtime on Wednesday 8 July 2026.

Playtime is one of our oldest events and definitely one of my favourite formats. We have a new venue for Playtime that we are excited to share with you. It's a spacious and well equipped two room venue in North London with a large play and dungeon space and a separate social space.

Due to the group size, curation of guests and the icebreaker games we play at the start, we always manage to have the loveliest bunch of people which makes for a great party. 💕

One guest emailed after one of our Playtimes last year to say: “A massive thank you for all the work you have done building such a wonderful group. As a newcomer, I found the evening exhilarating, liberating, and in layman's terms - sexy as fuck! As a hostess, I loved your charisma, intelligence and I especially appreciated the effort you made in making sure we felt welcomed and "part of". I felt the ice breaker games at the start alleviated my nerves and anxieties. I enjoyed chatting, watching and playing around like-minded people. I loved playing with the variety of whips and using a sex swing for the first time.”

Some of the equipment in the space:

-Double Bed
-Bondage Bed with cage
-Sex Swing
-St Andrews Cross
-Spanking Bench
-Bondage Throne
-Gyno Chair
-Stripper pole
-Queening stool

There is a wide selection of impact and edge play toys including electric play as well as bondage restraints.

Spaces are limited to 40 and to ensure the right balance between genders, ages, sexual orientation etc., guests are required to share information about themselves on the check out form. Buying a ticket is no guarantee of a space. If in the event we cannot accommodate you, your ticket will be refunded in full at least two weeks before the event. First come, first considered so we recommend early applications. If you haven't heard from us 7 days before the event, please follow up, as sometimes our emails go into Spam. We hold no liability for no-shows who were notified of their place. (Please do not book transport or hotels until you have received a confirmation email from us.)

*Please note that tickets are sold in three categories: Female, Male and Non Binary. If you wish to be considered for the event with a friend, play partner or romantic partner, then please indicate on the checkout form who you are applying with and your application will be considered together.

**Please take the time to read our essay on safety and consent at sex positive events and The Ethics of the Sex Positive Scene. And don't miss Foxy's new essay on The Power of Community. Take a read to find out how to deepen your engagement with the community.

The price for the evening is £53 per person. The venue is BYO so please bring your own drinks. We will provide glasses, ice and some soft drinks and snacks.

Doors open at 7pm.
Introduction & icebreakers at 7.45pm.
Close at 11.45pm.

Dress code: Sexy Playtime i.e. dress sexy. Strictly no jeans, street clothes or your work clothes. Shoes are welcome in the space. You are welcome to change there after work. 

Please note that men must make as much effort as women with their attire and appearance. Here is a Pinterest with ideas of what to wear for all genders.

Looking forward to playing with you in the Den.

Love Foxy 🦊
x

Feedback from previous Playtime events:

“I wonder if you could pass on to Foxy what a wonderful time myself and my play partners had at the Foxy Playtime event week before last. I know that these things are quite a challenge to organise and Foxy managed to put together such a lovely bunch of people. The venue worked well for all our fantasies (lots of great equipment!) and the warm up games were loads of fun! I'm really looking forward to future events. Thank you again Fox Den team!"

"My feedback is all exceptionally positive! It was very well organised and easily one of the best small parties I have done in a long time. I met some great people with whom I hope to keep in touch. One particular thing I appreciated was how welcome I felt as a single man. As a committed solo poly man, I often find it difficult to do events alone. Many parties won't allow me to attend by myself so I depend on partners for entry, which is a difficult dynamic for a committed single person; as if I only have value if I have a partner willing to vouch for me. It's a very mono-normative standard. But the parties that do allow single men often charge a fortune and cram them in, without thinking about whether it is safe and welcoming for everyone else. This can be even more uncomfortable, in a different way. So it was really nice to do an event as a single guy, but still feel part a positive, happy group dynamic. And well done you for curating such a great vibe. I know how special that is.”

“Wow, I had the best time! It was my first Fox Den event so I was a little nervous. The venue was so nice and cosy and you were always on hand to answer any questions and checking in with everyone. The guests were super hot and it was a lovely mix of people, I cannot wait until next time.”

“Big thanks from us both for Playtime last night, we thoroughly enjoyed ourselves and are getting horny replaying the memories today. Great crowd of charming and fun people with just the right amount of naughtiness!”

“I just wanted to say wow. What a fantastic evening! I was a little worried about coming to an event of this size but the mix of people you’d put together worked really well. The venue was great as were all the toys that were on offer as I got to try some things I haven’t used before with my play partner and I loved them. Met some lovely people and enjoyed playing with some of them as well 😊”

“Loved my first Foxy Playtime event...completely different but equally as good as the Lounge. The different rooms to choose between were great...especially the dungeon room and equipment 😏Great crowd again...as I always find!”

"I wanted to drop you an email to say thank you for the party last night. xx and I had a fantastic time and loved every minute. The evening was well organised, friendly and inclusive, more so than any other even either of us have ever been to. Everyone we met was warm and welcoming and a good time was had by all. We very much look forward to the next one."

“Absolutely fabulous time!!! Loved the space, everyone was so friendly and respectful.”

“Thanks so much for a great eve!! Really liked the venue and atmosphere.”

"Thank you for a lovely evening, Foxy. The effort put in was appreciated and more than worth the journey time."

"Thank you again for hosting such a wonderful evening."

"That party was OFF THE CHARTS!"

"Thank you again for putting together another night in yet a different format to explore yesterday."

"Thank you for a wonderful party! It was amazing. Everyone was so impressed and super happy. Cannot wait for another one."

Frequently Asked Questions and Terms & Conditions

I can no longer attend. Can I get a refund?

Tickets are strictly non-refundable and non-transferable to another event or person. However, we may make an exception to this clause if the event sells out so another member can attend. In this case, we will attempt to transfer your ticket to the next member on the waiting list if you give us enough notice. This will incur an administration fee of £15 per person (not booking). Testing positive for Covid is not grounds for a refund. If you disregard these terms and attempt to sell your place to another member without our permission, this will result in an immediate membership ban. Please do not book a ticket if you do not want to accept these terms of sale, thank you.

If you can no longer make the event, please let us know on the day / evening. Members consistently buying tickets and not attending without letting us know will be removed from the membership as this takes away a potential space for another member and can upset the balance of an event. Thanks for understanding.

I’m not a member, can I buy a ticket?

In short, no. Fox Den events with play spaces are only open to registered members. This is to ensure that all guests attending a play event have signed up to The Fox Den Code of Conduct providing a respectful and safe environment for everyone. You will need to supply your membership number as part of the ticket buying process. You can apply for free membership here. If you are not a vetted member, do not attempt to buy tickets as this will result in an immediate membership ban.)

When can I know the address of the venue?

The address for the venue will be emailed to guests at least one week before the event but it is a 10 minute walk from Seven Sisters station.

Can I bring my own drinks?

Yes you may as the venue does not have an alcohol license. We will provide glasses, ice and some soft drinks. 

Will there be a House Dominant?

There will not be a House Dominant at this event due to its size. Guests who wish to use the BDSM equipment in the Dungeon do so at their own risk. 

What do I need to bring to get in?

Entry is only possible with your personalised ticket and photo ID. This will be cross checked with our membership list. If there isn't a photographic match, there will be no entry. Entry is always at the management’s discretion.

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