Talk: BDSM Demystified
Wed 28 Jul 2021 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM BST
The Star by Hackney Downs, E5 8NN
Description
Interested in dipping a toe into the practice of BDSM but not sure where to start, what you want to explore, or how to be safe? Come to our July Fox Den talk where we will discuss all aspects of BDSM and answer all your burning questions.
In conversation with Foxy will be Alex the Curious Master. Alex is a Primal Dom and a multi-disciplinary practitioner who creates safe, judgement-free and playful environments for individuals and couples to explore, heal and grow. His specialties are deepening intimacy between lovers and the playful exploration of alternative lifestyles such as conscious kink, BDSM, tantra, ethical non-monogamy and more.
What is BDSM?
BDSM is an acronym that represents three categories of practice: bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism. At its essence is a sexual exchange of power between consenting participants. With kink apps like Feeld or websites like Fetlife, it’s never been easier to meet someone to explore this side of your sexuality.
In this talk we will:
- Explain BDSM terms like Switch, DD/lg, top, bottom, SSC, Rigger, Brat, Primal etc.
- Bust some common myths about BDSM
- Explore different D/s (Dom(me)/submissive) dynamics*
- Discuss how to introduce BDSM into an existing relationship
- Explain how to approach BDSM safely (with an existing or new partner)
- And much more.
This is also a chance to meet others in the Fox Den community and the event is open to all. Non members are welcome.
Stay safe, stay sexy
Love Foxy 🦊
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Schedule:
7pm: Doors open. Drinks and socialising.
7.30pm: Panel discussion and Q&A.
8.30pm: Drinks and socialising.
10pm: Event ends.
Venue:
The Star by Hackney Downs
35 Queensdown Road
London
E5 8NN
Good transport links to Hackney central (it's a short walk from there) with direct trains from west and south London. It's also a gorgeous pub with fabulous food and local craft beers.
*You can take a free 10 minute test on BDSMtest.org which scores you against the main BDSM personality types.*
**All Fox Den talks and workshops operate under the policy of Chatham House Rule.**
***Tickets are strictly non-refundable but they are transferable. If Government advice around gatherings change, all tickets will be valid for the next available date.***