HTEPLC: How to Eat Pussy like a Champ
HTEPLC: How to Eat Pussy like a Champ
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Want to become a champ-quality giver or receiver of pussy pleasure?
We all want to give and receive deeply gratifying sexual pleasure, but talking about sex can be awkward, sex education is woefully inadequate, and most porn does not depict realistic sexuality. As a queer woman and pussy eating enthusiast, Dr. Alison Ash of TurnON.love offers valuable insights for both givers and receivers!
What’s unique about this workshop:
- Comprehensive anatomy, including the various nerve pathways involved so you can understand the different kinds of orgasms that are possible as well as science-based techniques for how to explore them.
- Skills for getting out of your head and overcoming awkwardness so you can feel pleasure from receiving and giving.
- A wide range of techniques for maximizing pleasure with your hand and mouth as well as the many ways to mix it up, including different positions, squirting, using toys, and incorporating ass stimulation.
- Support for receivers so they can more fully identify preference and learn how to ask for it, increase their capacity to receive, and take a more active role in cultivating their own pleasure.
- Support for givers so they can elicit feedback, attune and calibrate effectively, feel confident exploring the diverse range of what pussies enjoy, and be equipped to skillfully pleasure them all. Learn how to tease and progress in a thoroughly titillating manner to create mental turn on and stimulate the internal clitoris.
- A live demo so you can see how to put all the skills in action, including communicating desires, exploring preferences, an extensive warm-up, and a wide range of techniques.
- A comprehensive How to Eat Pussy Like A Champ handout covering the 5 Central Tenets of Champ-Quality Pussy Eating and a Guide to My Pussy instruction manual to share with lover(s).
This is an incredibly impactful workshop for receivers and givers of all experience levels. Both individuals and couples are welcome!
Can’t make this workshop on this date? Watch on demand!
Reviews
“I had my FIRST MULTIPLE ORGASMS ever, immediately following the workshop! My partner and I got way more creative and communicative about everything. I trust him with my pussy on a new level. My confidence grew. I knew more about what turns me on and when, and how to communicate this effectively and sexily.” - A.G.
“My communication with my primary partner got instantly smoother and our sexual connection improved as a result. Moreover, the suggested exercises gave me shortcuts for how to learn about new partners’ preferences in a hot way.” - J.H.
“I’ve just always been so nervous about having someone between my legs. The pressure of time or that he wasn’t liking it or the ‘how do I smell’ and ‘what do I taste like’ was replaced by ‘let’s try this’ and ‘how does that feel’ and we just played around for hours. And eventually, not really worrying about it, led to the FIRST ORGASM from oral that I have had in TEN YEARS!!” - M.S.
“I came into it expecting to learn a lot of things to teach my future partners and in no way expected to learn how to become a better communicator and receiver. All valuable lessons that I won't soon forget. Thank you for that!" - J.D.
Instructor Bio
Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering intimate experiences. She has helped pioneer research into the orgasm gap and has written on topics ranging from pleasure in heterosexual dynamics to queer and trans identities and experiences. She also draws on her extensive training in Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, and the Somatica Method of sex and intimacy coaching to support her clients to radically explore and courageously express themselves. Dr. Aly designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to be able to cultivate and sustain nourishing emotional and sexual intimacy.
She invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love and on Instagram and Facebook.
Additional details
* Please note tickets are not refundable. You may transfer them to another individual but not to a future event.
*For privacy, you will only see "HTEPLC: How to Eat" on your credit card statements.
* Dr. Aly offers two discounted volunteer tickets for $40 each on a first come first serve basis. Please save these tickets for those who could not afford to attend otherwise. Contact coordinator@turnon.love for more info.
* Please take an at-home antigen test on the day of the workshop and take a photo of your results. Tests can also be purchased at the door for $10. If you are feeling unwell or develop symptoms, please stay home. Masks will be optional.
* I welcome folks of all genders, sexual orientations, relationship structures, ages, body types, races and ethnicities. The bathroom at this venue is not ADA accessible (may not be large enough for folks in wheelchairs).
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Complete List of Workshops and Courses Available as On-Demand Rentals
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Mastering Non-Monogamy Level 2
Navigating Non-Monogamy Level 1
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Neurodiverse Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy
Neurodiverse Relating & Executive Function
Refining Your Sexual Intuition
Repairing Ruptures in Relationships
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The Ins and Outs of Play Parties
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Location
Private venue in Oakland (address listed on ticket)